My Advice for taking great summer photos!

Well friends let's get the beach ball rolling and talk about capturing your best summer photos yet! In my opinion photos are shot with your camera, but captured with your heart so let's make it a point to start there. First, I'd like to invite you to think about your own favorite summer memories as a child. In fact, I recommend giving yourself the assignment to pull out some of those old summer photos so you can connect with the feelings they give you.  Are those photos filled with plastic kiddie pools in the backyard, eating popsicles that stained your lips for days or are they filled with days spent at the beach, with wild hair tousled by wind and dried by the sun? How do you feel looking at them? The reason I want you to remember those feelings so vividly is because I believe that if you can connect with your childhood self, you can photograph your family's summer moments even better! You must first see summer thru the eyes of a child to capture it just right.  This year, make it a point to recreate one of your own childhood summer memories (in some form or fashion) to share with your own family. Then while you're enjoying that time together look for the moments that make you feel the way you did when you looked at your photos. Look for the pure joy, look for the fun and look for the beauty. Look for the essence of the moment so you can document it without forcing it. Remember, a photo doesn't has to be perfect to be beautiful, it just needs to be genuine.

My second assignment for you is to make yourself a summer bucket list. I personally don't like to make "Photo Bucket Lists" because it's heavy on the photo aspect and makes it more about getting the photo checked off rather than cherishing the time. So simply start with writing down the memories you want to make as a family and just plan to have your camera handy.  However, remember not to make it all about capturing the moment so much that you forget to enjoy it. I'm constantly reminding myself of that, because I realized a while back that I wanted my son to remember me being in the moment with him, instead of just observing and documenting it all the time. I promise you, the best photos just come by being present in your own life, then deciding that you wanted to freeze that moment forever by quickly photographing it.

I also advise you to take a little break from posting your family photos on social media or sharing your photos with others. Something happens when you decide your memories are just for you and no one else. Suddenly you realize the true motivation behind why you're photographing a moment and it's has nothing to do with showing off a perfect family. Instead, it's primary purpose is simply to document your family's life to enjoy for years to come. It relieves you from the pressure for it to be "look picture perfect".  In my opinion my photography got much better when I decided to do it for me, without fear of having to display it. So friends, I beg you to let your hair be wet and messy in photos, take photos of ice-cream melting all over your son's hand as he savors every lick and just decide to capture true genuine memories for the pure joy of it!

Have a wonderful summer everyone!!

Utilize Different Angles To Get Better Photos

      Hello friends, I'm very excited about this topic and am anxious to get started. I've been pondering for weeks what I would write about that could influence your photography in a way that you would find beneficial. Each time I thought about it the same recurring idea came to me, which hopefully means I'm on the right track : ) The idea is about the angle or perspective at which you take your photos from. I firmly believe that how you approach the subject you are photographing has huge impact on the mood that gets conveyed and the story the photograph will tell, so let's get started!

       To me there are several basic angles that I would like to discuss and utilize very regularly. The first one seems like a no brainer, but I'm telling you, my very own husband needs constant reminding! It's simply to take most of your photos at your subject's eye level. I believe a couple of things happen when you actually get down on your subject's level: Firstly, when you're at their level I think you're connecting better with your subject which tends to bring out genuine smiles and emotion more easily. I also believe that shooting at eye level encourages you to want to fill the frame with your subject more. It's like we tend to instinctively understand that the subjects are the focal point so we naturally zoom in when they do this, resulting in beautiful intimate shots that have true connection.

(Photographing a subject at eye level can create deep connection)

       The second angle I love to take photos from is at a very low perspective. Yes, I'm completely aware that I just told you to take most of your photos at your subject's eye level, but as you'll quickly find out, one angle will not fit every situation nor do you want all of your photos to look the same. I happen to shoot a lot of shots of my son at a lower level when he is playing or working on something because it allows me to capture his facial expressions better. Don't be afraid of looking ridiculous laying on your back or tummy to get a shot, trust me you get to a point that you don't even care what you look like while shooting, lol. Besides, I always convince myself that no one is looking at me anyways : ) The example photo below of my husband and son playing was obviously taken from a low angle and because of that I think it captures the feeling of being right there with them in their happy little moment. Not only does it capture their interaction, and emotion,  but the photograph also shows some of the surrounds which I believe helps give this moment a frame of reference, which helps tell the story even better. 

(Photograph from lower levels to get playful shots and emphasis your subject's perspective) 

       The next logical angle is to shoot from above. I personally love taking photos of my son looking right up at me, they are some of my favorites because I know there will come a time that we'll see eye to eye or he'll be taller than me. It's a gentle reminder to myself that for now, he still looks up to me and how little he still is. A couple of things happen when you shoot from above, more than likely your subject will have beautiful catchlights in their eyes because most light is from above us. Catchlights happen when a light source is reflected in your subject's eyes, it's what gives eyes beautiful sparkle! Shooting from above is also great to give a birds-eye view of something that is happening. For instance, I love to shoot from above when my son is laying on the floor looking at a book or playing a board game, it's like I'm peeking in on him from above. However, when I shoot from above I will almost certainly shoot at eye level and below too in order to evaluate which angle I like the best.

 (Photographing from above captures how I see my son and can create beautiful catchlights) 

       Lastly, is shooting photos from behind your subject. I love this angle for showing relationships. I have many photos of my husband and son walking away from the camera and this sweet shot of my little guy and our furry little girl Miley. However, keep one thing in mind, many of us are very self-conscious of our backsides so most women (myself included) prefer these shots if they are shot from waist or higher (a skirt instead of jeans with big pockets may also flattering). I also use shooting from behind my subject when I want to show what my subject is looking at. For instance, if I take my son to the beach I may take a photo of him looking out a the water. Leaving him in the shot shows how small he is in the vast open space and shooting at his level shows the viewer how he sees the world at his age, both of those things make a huge impact visually.

(Photographing from behind can give an intimate view into a special relationship 

or show how your subject sees the world)

       So now that we've discussed angles and how I use some of them in my own photography, my goal is to inspire you to approach each photo you take with intention. Before you snap a shot take a quick moment to think about the story and feeling you want your photo to convey and which angle will help you achieve that the best. Don't be afraid to take lots of photos! Gosh friends, I'll confess that I'm a chronic over-shoots and proud of it! Despite the fact that I take a ton of shots, I can easily pick out the photos that I like best very quickly. I love having choices rather than being stuck with one or two shots that I'm not happy with. I shoot from all different angles, utilize different camera settings and sometimes even then I'll still end up re-shooting it because I realize something I should have done differently after the fact. Each time you take a shot that you love, ask yourself why you love it so much. When you're not happy with a photo evaluate what would have made it better. Doing those things will give you insight into your taste and you'll find your own style.

       Lastly friends, remember that photography is a means of self-expression and is an extension of who you are. Shoot what you love, because that's what will keep you energized and your passion will show in your work. Have fun with it and don't be afraid to make mistakes, I'm still learning and making mistakes everyday. If you ask me, the challenge is part of what make it so rewarding. Don't be afraid or intimidated to let the world see things through your eyes, because I bet your view is pretty darn amazing because you are amazing!!!! 

      Be happy and well my friends, appreciate everyday, count your blessings, be filled with joy always and spread happiness everywhere you go. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for reading my little blog, it means more than you'll ever know. 

Yours truly,

Connie : ) 

My Greatest Fear

     Since giving birth to our son I have worried incessantly about a countless number of things, but one of my biggest fears, aside from losing our son, has always been that something would happen to my husband or myself, leaving our son without one or both of his parents. Sadly, this hits very close to home for me, because I witnessed one of my beloved aunts loose her battle with breast cancer. She was only 45 and left behind a 12 year daughter who had no active father in her life. I can't even begin to describe the kind of pain and havoc that was left in it's wake.

       What that loss instilled in me was a deep seated fear. Which leaves me constantly asking myself "if something were to happened to either of us would our son know how much he was loved?" I know we tell him constantly and our actions show it, but would that be enough to carry him through the rest of his life? Would it be enough to carry him through life's trails and celebrations and would it bring him comfort?  That thought worried me, and to this day it still does. So what do you do when you worry about something?  You formulate a plan to set your mind at ease. Other than trying to take care of ourselves, I knew that my life and death were in God's hand, death is simply a matter of when, not if. So I knew I wanted to be proactive should I be taken from this earth before I anticipated. I wanted to give our son something tangible, something that he could hold in his hands when he missed me/us. My plan was simple, it was photographs.  I planned on photographing our son as much a possible, I was going to show him how much I loved him by all the thoughtful photos I took of him and of our lives together as a family. I wanted him to know that he was the sun and moon of our little planet and that I left no shadow of doubt that he was anything but adored by us. It sounded like a great plan, he would have the photos an our words to comfort him. The only problem was that wouldn't be enough, but I didn't know that yet.

      One day I found myself discussing all of this with one of my closest friends and she pointed out something I hadn't even thought to consider. She said "Connie, do you know what your son would want photos of if you were to die?" She asked in such a way that it seemed like it should be painfully obvious. She said "He wouldn't want photos of himself, he would want photos of you!" Gosh, when she said that I instantly knew in my heart that she was right and I felt like I had the wind knocked right of of my chest! How in the world had I not even considered that? For anyone who has ever lost someone, you know that to be true. I knew all of that first hand so what in the world was I thinking? From that moment on I started to get in my own photos more and knew that I wanted to share more of myself with our son. For instance I want him to know that the reason he likes to twirl his hair while he sleeps is because I used to do that while I rocked him to sleep in my arms as a baby. I want him to know that one of  my little joys in life is watching those tiny bubbles drift and bounce around that come from squeezing the dish soap bottle. If I left this earth too soon, I would want him to know me, not just as his mom, but who I was as a person. Because knowing me, means he knows himself a little more too.

       What I'm trying to emphasis at is that I don't want you to get so caught up in documenting the lives of your children or loved ones that you forget to document who you are. You never know, the photos of you  may in fact be the best gift you ever gave your children or loved ones. So friends I implore you, have a plethora of photos of yourself. I promise you, you're kids won't care if you had makeup on or if your outfit was cute, that won't matter one iota. Just get in front of the camera once in awhile, actually scratch that, get in front of the camera a lot! In conjunction with photos have notes and list written down that leave clues as to the person you were . Leave a shoe box full of little things that are important to you and explanation of why. Have a love letter written to your children or to whomever you love should you not be able to utter it one last time to them in person. Leave them with an abundance of yourself, because that is what they will crave the most. Leave behind a little bit of you to remain with them.

Getting to the Heart of Photography

Life is full of memorable moments

       Well hello there! First of all, can I just say that I'm totally giddy that you stopped by to read my little blog. I would most certainly give you a big hug if you were here as a thank you! Yes, I'm a hugger you should probably know that about me right off the bat. If you've had a photo session with me, I can almost guarantee that I gave you a hug, it's very hard for me to refrain from it. Also, if you tell me that makes you uncomfortable I'll probably give a hug anyways because you were honest with me, no really it's true! Well I guess what I'm trying to get across is that I like to make people feel welcomed, appreciated and comfortable. So anyhow, consider yourself hugged today.

        I'm excited to share my thoughts and ideas with you this year and I'm thrilled that you're here. Some of the things I want to accomplish with my blog is to inspire you to document your life, so that you appreciate it even more. I know this isn't a novel idea and I'm pretty sure you're already doing this. Let's face it, we live in a society that is obsessed with documenting everything, all you have to do is look around and you'll probably find someone snapping a photo with their phone and sharing them on Facebook or Instagram. However, I'm speaking more to how you're documenting and what. What I hope to achieve is to inspire you to take the photos that truly tell the story of your life, not the ones where you say "look here and smile". Those are great and they certainly have their place, but so do the day to day moments that make up our routines and make our life uniquely ours. Moments like when your son sitting at the breakfast table with his hair all a mess and you can't stop laughing about it. It's about pictures of skinned knees and tangled knots in your daughter's hair. It's also about those tender moments when your child snuggles close for a bedtime story. I'm going to be honest with you, all of those little moments mean more to me than the one or two posed photos that are hanging on my wall. Those moments mean so much to me that I have numerous heavy albums full of them. And you know what? Those are the photo that truly make me appreciate our life so much more and fill my heart with tremendous amounts of joy. So lets vow to take more of those kinds of photos in 2015. In upcoming blog posts I'll give you suggestion on how to do that and what works for me.

        I also want to take this opportunity to announce that Wunder Photography may also be adopting this kind of lifestyle photography into it's style as well. I took time this winter to really analyze what I love about photography and what I was most passionate about. Every time I asked myself that question I always came back with the fact that for me it was about documenting life and telling a story. I realized that I wanted to somehow share that with all of you in terms of the style of photography that I offer. I'm throwing around the idea of possibly doing on going in home sessions where I would capture everyday life. Right now this is all very hypothetical and there is a lot to consider, but I just wanted to let you know where my heart is and what Wunder Photography is super passionate about. As exited as I am about this, I'm allowing myself time to develope these ideas so please be patient with me. I'm hoping to spend time asking questions and refining my photography techniques to suit this new style of photography, but you'll be the first to know when I'm finally ready to make the leap.

       In addition to all of that, I just want to make this blog fun! I want to talk to you like we've been friends forever. For instance, I want to tell you when I've fallen in love with a new camera related purchase or found some awesome way to display photos in your home. Basically I want to be free to share whatever is in my heart with all of you and I hope that you're willing to listen. If you would like to follow more of my work use the links on this page to follow me on Instagram and Pinterest. Please also know that I would love to hear your comments and feedback so always feel free to post them below. Thank you so much for listening and I promise to chat again with you next week! Till then, keep your chin up and a smile on your face.

Sincerely yours,

Connie Wunder